Saturday, 13 April 2013

Hang up the teen you're an adult now.

Turning 20 terrified me at first, I think it was the idea of hanging up my teen and being recognised as an adult, but I truly feel that this will be the year I make everything I want to happen, Happen. Maybe starting a new stage in my life is just what I need to release the old and welcome the new. For years I have let people that haven't intentionally held me back. Hold me back. 

I finally have a placement apprenticeship in my dream job, I will never go back to waiting tables. Although I have realised that working in a nursery isn't as easy as I thought it would be, they deserve the holidays they get, but I'll never go back to working anywhere else. This year I will complete my apprenticeship or at least complete most of it.

My goals for this year may seem small but they are everything I've wanted to do throughout my life but always pushed them back and even though I have changed as a person they still sit there. This year they will happen. 

Work towards and gain my NVQ 2 in childcare.
Travel outside of the UK 
Start driving. (and conquer that fear) 
Go to the gym, and have a steady workout routine I stick to! 
Start eating properly and regularly. 
Start a project or pick up one I've left and complete it. 
Let the past go, every little bit of it that still gets to me. 
Blog regularly ( I have started writing a few, just haven't quite finished them) 
Live for myself and not other people.  

Although I maybe 20 and older, that's no reason to hang up the child inside me, I'll still forever have a love for all things Kawaii, Hello Kitty, Tokidoki and Anime. 

Tuesday, 5 March 2013

Being Unemployed.

I have been unemployed for over a year now and in that time I have altered as a person. 

It took me 3 months to sign onto Job seekers allowance because since the day I have left school I have been employed and worked. I have worked in a hotel restaurant and worked functions catering to over 500 people. I have also worked in a cafe and an High end Restaurant. I was lucky to get into work as fast as I did because I know the problem with a lot of young adults is no experience = no job which is crazy because how can you get experience without having a job in the first place? 

Over the last year I have applied for well over 1000 jobs and have had less than 20 interviews. People who use the excuse that 'there are no jobs out there and that is why I'm unemployed' are wrong and aren't looking hard enough. It may be because you are being fussy at the beginning I was too, I would only apply for jobs that I felt comfortable doing, I wouldn't dare apply for any work within a super market ect. 

The amount of people applying for the same job is crazy and that is where the problem is. You have to make yourself stand out with your application. 

Being unemployed has cut me off from society, I have spent most of my time working on my long term goals as well as trying to create short term ones. Within the last year or so I have built up the foundations of a clothing company which I hope to launch as soon as I have enough funding. I have started writing voluntarily for music websites and so on. I have expanded my knowledge on things I wouldn't bother with otherwise and have become a lot more spiritual believing that everything happens for a reason and that something will come along soon. 

My advice for anyone who is unemployed and struggling is : 

  • Make yourself stand out! - Re-write your cover letter specifically for the job you are applying for. If you have one that you use for every application it is obvious. 
  • Volunteer - Working for nothing may seem like a chore but if you've just left school or have little experience in the world of work it is the perfect opportunity to try new things and learn new skills. It will enhance you as a person as well as boosting your CV. 
  • Create a CV specifically for each role you are applying for - for example If you have experience in hospitality and are applying for a retail role. Highlight your customer service skills and the fact that you have handled money ect. Anything that will be required of you within that role, because lets be honest they won't care if you have served caviar over a burger! 
  • Stay positive - Don't accept defeat and use it as the driving force to where you want to be in life! 
You are the only person that can make things happen, If it takes a week, month or a year it is fundamentally down to how much you want it. Use the people in your life as motivation and if they drag you down rise above it. Being unemployed is just a period of time out of the ashes a new dawn will arise. Good luck <3

I have now been offered an apprenticeship in my dream job. They found me. 
Always stay positive and positive things will happen! 

Wednesday, 27 February 2013

tokidoki

'tokidoki, which translates as “sometimes” in Japanese, is the vision of Italian artist Simone Legno and his partners, serial entrepreneurs Pooneh Mohajer and Ivan Arnold. Since debuting in 2005, tokidoki has amassed a cult-like following for its larger-than-life characters and emerged as a sought-after global lifestyle brand. This innovative company is known not only for its eye-popping aesthetic and criminally cute characters but also its megawatt partnerships with the likes of mega brands such as, Hello Kitty, Karl Lagerfeld, LeSportsac, Barbie, Onitsuka Tiger, Marvel and others'. - tokidoki website


I have collected Tokidoki Figures for 2 years now and I honestly fall in love with it a little more each time. I found them whilst looking at Hello kitty collaborations and haven't looked back so much so I'm redecorating my room in order to put up more shelves to house my collection! They remind me of my childhood especially the cactus pals (pictured) that surround themselves in spikes because it's a dangerous world out there!





Tokidoki also released a controversial Barbie doll the first with Tattoos you couldn't remove. The limit edition doll sold out fast and now sell at £150 - £300 second hand. Considering the feedback I guess times haven't moved on that fast as parents were the first to complain over the design. I believe it was just a step forward into the future as Barbie evolves with new fashion trends and styles it's only a matter of time before Mattel release a line of alternative Barbie dolls.


The only problem with living in the UK is having to wait for the collections to arrive here! The latest Unicorno set and Donutella and pals plushes is yet to be in stock in the store I get my vinyl figures in! Tokidoki as a brand is growing with collaborations in the skating and fashion world among others I just hope the UK recognises it a little more in the coming years therefore it becoming easier to get my hands on new editions. 

Next week I'll let you delve a little into my collection with reviews of the paintwork and design. This was just an appreciation post of possibly my favourite brand of all time. p.s : if you happen to have a Tokidoki Barbie doll hanging around.. I'll happily take it off your hands. ( it was worth a try. no?) 


The tokidoki swallow links through to twitter.. Follow me for updates on when i post! <3

Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Chihuahua love.


 Owning a Chihuahua
I have owned many a breed of dog through the years and I can honestly say the Chihuahua is the most loyal, loveable, obedient dog you could come into contact with.
Before my family took the plunge into getting a smaller dog, due to the fact our house and garden were way to small to house the two jack Russell’s we had, I did get warned off by a few people saying they were vicious and possessive. Thankfully I didn't listen.. and I hope if you're looking into getting a Chihuahua this Blog will aid you in making the right decision.

Overall health
It is said that small dogs are healthier than bigger dogs, but Chihuahua’s are prone to get diabetes if they are overweight or fed a lot of sugar. You also need to keep a check on their teeth as it is notable that in their breed they'll suffer if neglected.

Chihuahua’s have both long and smooth coats!
If i had a pound for every person that questioned me on Toki being an actual Chihuahua I'd be rich by now. Chihuahua’s come in various colours and hair lengths.

House training from a puppy
I have read on-line that after a year it takes time to train a Chihuahua something new, I'm yet to learn if this is true or not as Toki is still just under a year old. The first week we had her she did mess in places she shouldn't, although that is expected from any breed but in my experience she learnt where to go faster than say a Jack Russell would

Training
Toki was so easy to train! compared to a jack Russell it was a piece of cake. all you need is treats and to be a little firm and your Chihuahua will be sitting and rolling over in no time!

Chihuahua’s are vicious
This couldn't be further from the truth. Toki loves cuddles, she loves laying on peoples laps, and she loves being around people she's familiar with... when an unfamiliar person comes along all she does is bark until she realizes there’s no danger and calms down.

Chihuahua’s are possessive
yes and no, we brought Toki up in a family environment, since 8 weeks she has been around adults and children and is used to being picked up and fussed. Its only when she's tired she becomes somewhat possessive. As she spends a lot more time with me than any other person in the house she tends to prefer to cuddle up to me while I'm watching TV etc.  she will growl and warn the person who tries to take her away but has never bitten  or attacked. If she is picked up she will wriggle free and return to my lap.

Chihuahua’s take up a lot of time
This is true. Chihuahua’s are Lap dogs and will prefer to cuddle up to you rather than in their bed. Toki loves her toys. She prefers small soft squeakers and puppy sized pull toys. Own a Chihuahua and you'll forever be buying toys and treats in the puppy section. One perk if you live a hectic life that comes with owning a small dog is how little you need to walk them 15 minutes is sufficient although there are some days when she walks for a good hour or so with short breaks in which she gets carried.

Chihuahua’s cost!
It honestly depends on the type of Chihuahua you own and your vets prices. Of course if you are buying a puppy you'll need to get him/her checked by a vet and them vaccinated. I paid £55 for her full course of injections, two check-ups and a puppy pack.

A long hair Chihuahua will need to be groomed. Toki gets cut every 3 months with her nails maybe getting done in between. my advice for you is seek somewhere other than your vets if they charge a set price no matter how big the dog is! I knocked £15 off Toki's grooming, by going to a local pet shop that catered for grooming too.

Dressing dogs up is cruel.
Right this isn't associated with only Chihuahua’s but I feel I need to add this from a small dog owners perspective. Small dogs are small! They can't hold onto body heat as well as other breeds of dog. Fur or fur-less they get cold quick! Put a jumper or a coat around them it's actually cruel to take a small dog out for a walk without something on during winter.

I do believe that in some respects people go over the top with dressing dogs. Dress them to keep them warm; don't pile the accessories on them. They are animals after all.

Aside from that, my dog likes wearing a t-shirt around the house when it’s cold. If she didn't why would she sit down with her tail wagging whenever she sees me with one in my hand?


Last words
This is by far the most important thing I could say. Buy your Chihuahua from a respected breeder! It may cost more but it could just be worth it. I bought Toki from a local family.. I noticed her because she was hiding in the corner while the other puppies came forward. I instantly fell in love with her. The people who bred her had been giving her Goats milk instead of water and letting her out on the pavement outside their house. We took her to the vets to enquire and she was riddled with and almost dying with worms. She also happened to be lactose intolerant, and covered in fleas. The vet bills were more than we originally paid for her but I refused to give up on her. A week or so later she was getting better in herself and getting stronger. It looked as though she was underweight as when we bought her she was plump but we got there. I wish I could have bought the whole litter. So please look into who you're buying from. Don’t put money into people’s pockets that are just in it for the money.

Monday, 11 February 2013

Valentines day.

Valentines day or single awareness day is the day dreaded by most singletons, you don't need me to tell you that but should it be dreaded or embraced? Sure sitting on your couch alone with ice cream isn't ideal but Valentines day is about love. so show yourself a little!

  • Buy yourself that outfit that's over priced. 
  • If you've been on a diet indulge in something you have missed. 
  • Spend it with family! (after all there is no love stronger) 
  • Have a night out with the girls. 
  • Workout! (as crazy as that sounds it always makes me feel great) 
  • Take a long candle lit bubble bath. 

Do something you Love and enjoy!
After all they do say 'for one to love another one must first love themselves' or you could use it as a starting point for change in your life, If you failed at working out or the diet you planned at new years plan ahead and make goals for yourself. short term goals are more realistic and will keep you on the path to success. 

As for me it's a night in with my chihuahua and I wouldn't have it any other way (this year!) I have learnt more in the last 2 years than at any other time in my life, I'm strong and independent and I'm happy with how things are valentines day or no valentines day. 

Sunday, 10 February 2013

Hair colour, Tattoos and society.

Why are these three things frowned upon so much in society these day's when so much has changed from past times. Why do people like myself get judged for showing some individuality and being ourselves.

Appearance is THE first impression.
So many people are close minded on many things these days, even though the world has moved on. Why is it that when walking into an interview you get judged solely on how you present yourself, I myself have been denied a job just because I had Bright red hair, they didn't mention it over the interview and hair colour can be changed almost instantaneously so why is it a big deal? it's not like it will hinder my performance,  Then when Rihanna dyed her hair red and the whole world copied I slowly noticed that it was more acceptable for you to have natural or red hair for a job.



It wasn't socially acceptable only a few years back for a woman to have tattoos on her body and now with role models like Kat Von D many young adults are getting tattooed, Most men even believe that a woman looks better with some ink on her! I myself have 3. As long as the tattoo's aren't offensive I see no problem in having any at all!

My tattoo's are a way of representing my life/family. I have been through hell and back and my family have gotten me through it so I carry them with me always in the form of tattoo's.

In many years time I can see it being socially acceptable for tattoo's to be on show in most if not every work place because there is a movement and as celebs turn tattoos and hair colour into the norm then soon enough it will be accepted everywhere.

--- note : with regards to health and safety i do understand why some piercings aren't accepted in certain work places, I'm not that naive.

Tuesday, 5 February 2013

A cherry welcome.

I'm no good at introductions but a new blog sort of needs one. 


I'm nineteen with no purpose or direction in my life, My chihuahua means more to me than most people. I believe that everything happens for a reason in life and although I don't believe in any religion I am highly spiritual. Being creative is just second nature to me, capturing a moment on camera only to find it one day and reliving that memory in your mind is perfection. I write for various different websites and I'll probably link them along the journey of this blog.

I am inked and pierced and like dying my hair brighter colours than the norm. I carry my story always through tattoo's the stories behind them have shaped who I am this very moment.

So welcome to my Blogger, My posts will reflect my interests such as Music, fashion, photography, spirituality, my Chihuahua, D.I.Y tutorials and I'll probably throw a few personal posts in the mix to.

You can also find me on ...
Twitter: https://twitter.com/cherryboness (The tokidoki swallow links through)
Instagram: instagram.com/cherryboness